Want to hear something crazy?Â Okay, maybe not crazy…want to hear an amazing coincidence?Â Wait…now that I think of it,it may notÂ really be a coincidence either.
In my attempts to be a Proverbs 31 wife and get my life in order (being “in your thirties”Â instead of just “30” can have that effect on you) I’ve noticed something interesting.Â The Bible shows us 10 areas of life which require a certain amount of attention given by the Virtuous Woman (thanks toÂ A Virtuous WomanÂ for laying these out with corresponding scriptures):
1. Faith – A Virtuous Woman serves God with all of her heart, mind, and soul. She seeks His will for her life and follows His ways.
(Proverbs 31: 26, Proverbs 31: 29 â€“ 31, Matthew 22: 37, John 14: 15, Psalm 119: 15)
2. Marriage â€“ A Virtuous Woman respects her husband. She does him good all the days of her life. She is trustworthy and a helpmeet.
(Proverbs 31: 11- 12, Proverbs 31: 23, Proverbs 31: 28, 1 Peter 3, Ephesians 5, Genesis 2: 18)
3. Mothering – A Virtuous Woman teaches her children the ways of her Father in heaven. She nurtures her children with the love of Christ, disciplines them with care and wisdom, and trains them in the way they should go.
(Proverbs 31: 28, Proverbs 31: 26, Proverbs 22: 6, Deuteronomy 6, Luke 18: 16)
4. Health â€“ A Virtuous Woman cares for her body. She prepares healthy food for her family.
(Proverbs 31: 14 â€“ 15, Proverbs 31: 17, 1 Corinthians 6: 19, Genesis 1: 29, Daniel 1, Leviticus 11)
5. Service – A Virtuous Woman serves her husband, her family, her friends, and her neighbors with a gentle and loving spirit. She is charitable.
(Proverbs 31: 12, Proverbs 31: 15, Proverbs 31: 20, 1 Corinthians 13: 13)
6. Finances – A Virtuous Woman seeks her husbandâ€™s approval before making purchases and spends money wisely. She is careful to purchase quality items which her family needs.
(Proverbs 31: 14, Proverbs 31: 16, Proverbs 31: 18, 1 Timothy 6: 10, Ephesians 5: 23, Deuteronomy 14: 22, Numbers 18: 26)
7. Industry â€“ A Virtuous Woman works willingly with her hands. Â She sings praises to God and does not grumble while completing her tasks.
(Proverbs 31: 13, Proverbs 31: 16, Proverbs 31: 24, Proverbs 31: 31, Philippians 2: 14)
8. Homemaking â€“ A Virtuous Woman is a homemaker. She creates an inviting atmosphere of warmth and love for her family and guests. She uses hospitality to minister to those around her.
(Proverbs 31: 15, Proverbs 31: 20 â€“ 22, Proverbs 31: 27, Titus 2: 5, 1 Peter 4: 9, Hebrews 13: 2)
9. Time – A Virtuous Woman uses her time wisely. She works diligently to complete her daily tasks. She does not spend time dwelling on those things that do not please the Lord.
(Proverbs 31: 13, Proverbs 31: 19, Proverbs 31: 27, Ecclesiastes 3, Proverbs 16: 9, Philippians 4:8 )
10. Beauty â€“ A Virtuous Woman is a woman of worth and beauty. She has the inner beauty that only comes from Christ. She uses her creativity and sense of style to create beauty in her life and the lives of her loved ones.
(Proverbs 31: 10, Proverbs 31: 21 â€“ 22, Proverbs 31: 24 -25, Isaiah 61: 10, 1 Timothy 2: 9, 1 Peter 3: 1 â€“ 6)
The interesting coincidence is that those 10 points can be condensed into the Five Spokes found in ChazownÂ by Craig Groeschel. If one of the spokes breaks, your whole wheel collapses (um, the wheel would be your life…got that?):
1. Your relationship with God
2. Your relationships with other people
3. Your financial life
4. Your physical health
5. Your life’s work
What’s so crazy is that before I even read that part of the book, before I even found the list of what it means to be a Virtuous Woman, I decided to concentrate onÂ eachÂ of the five spokes!Â And it was completely unintentional.Â It’s not like I sat down one day and decided there were 5 areas of my life I wanted to work on.Â I simply starting making time each morning to read my Bible.Â Then I started reading Chazown and discovered that my life’s work is to be an example to other wives of how to treat their husbands. Trey and I began our journey to Financial Peace last month – we’re slowly but surely getting the hang of Dave Ramsey’s envelope system and the debt snowball.Â As of August 1, we’ve both committed to restart the Power 90 diet program (Trey’s following Tony Horton’s work out plan whereas I’m letting Jillian Michaels kick my booty with her 30 Day Shred).Â And I think you may have picked up on the fact that I’m putting considerable efforts into being a better wife to my amazing hubby – aka working on our relationship.Â Honestly, allÂ five spokes snuck up on me as areas of my life that I wanted to improve before I even read it in the book.
And what’s even more amazing is that in working on the finances, my fitness, and my life’s work, I’m honoring my husband…AND in doing all of those things I’m honoring God and working to find His vision for my life.
Seriously, how cool is that?