blessed part 2

Last week I told you about my experience reading Robert Morris’ book, The Blessed Life. I finished the final chapter, study guide, and Afterward some time later that afternoon. Trey had been listening to the sermon series in his car and finished around the same time. We spent the week discussing what we learned as it came up and decided we wanted to give. So we scheduled a budget meeting.

We try to take time out each week to go over our finances. I handle most of the bill paying so we use this time to make sure Trey’s in the loop and to make sure things are categorized correctly in our budget. I know you’ve heard it a thousand times, but you need a budget – I recommend It’s a free online budgeting tool that lets you link all of your accounts into one place – so as soon as I use my debit card I can go online and lable the purchase “gas & fuel” or whatever it may be.

Anyway, at last week’s budget meeting, Trey and I vowed to really get serious about sticking to our budget. And we discovered that if we did that, not only could we keep up with our tithe, we could also give almost 15% on top of that to other ministries!

I know in my gut that God did that math for us and provided for us so that we could give more. I know that because we’re both crazy excited to get Trey’s next paycheck because that’s when we’ll get to put our new giving plan into action. Excited like Christmas Eve…no, excited like a kid the night before a Disney World trip.

This is gonna be awesome.


To kick off the new year, the current sermon series going on at Oak Hills Church is called The Blessed Life.  It’s based on the book (and sermon series) of the same title by author and pastor Robert Morris.  As divine intervention would have it, Trey and I happened to receive a copy of Morris’ book from Mama Jane for Christmas.  If it weren’t for the sermon series kick-off (message delivered by Robert Morris himself), I probably would have filed the book under “Morris” on the bookshelf and not given it much thought until I stumbled on it again in a few months – after I’d read all the other books that are currently in my pending stack.

But Morris’ message clicked with me.  More than clicked…it resonated.  So I opened the book.  By page five I was moved to tears.  So much so that I put it down immediately, went online and cancelled our Recurring Gift (the auto-draft we’d set up to take our tithe out every pay period) and made a One Time Gift of our tithe.  The Recurring Gift was great, but it took about 5 days to process, which meant it wasn’t the first money to leave our account.  The One Time Gift, however, is drafted immediately.  Oh – I guess I should mention that I happened to pick up the book on a pay-day.

Now, with only one chapter left to go (please take it as the highest compliment that I decided to go ahead and post this now so I wouldn’t forget rather than diving into the last 20 or so pages), I have been inspired.  Not just “oh, what a neat principle” inspired…but inspired to ACT!  And that, dear reader, is what good books are all about.


“The Blessed Life” is a pretty balanced combination of novel, devotional, and instructional writing – it draws you in, lifts you up, and sets you on the right path.  The book is Morris’ attempt to show Christians what we’ve been doing wrong all these years in regards to our finances.  The principle is simple (and is literally written THROUGHOUT the ENTIRE Bible – testaments old and new):  give to God what is God’s (your tithe – the FIRST ten percent of all of your gross income) and He will bless you & your finances; don’t, and you (and all your moolah) are cursed; give above and beyond your tithe and your blessings will be multiplied.  It’s that simple.  And it makes perfect sense.  Caine killed Abel because he was jealous that God looked favorably on Able’s offering and not on Caine’s.  Why?  Because Caine just gave what he felt like when he felt like it and Abel gave the first fruits.

I know what you’re thinking: Um, I already tithe and my bank account is definitely not blessed.

To that, Morris would ask if you tithed FIRST.  Before the mortgage, the groceries, the power bill…before putting a dollar in a vending machine – did you tithe?  If the answer is no, yer doin’ it wrong.

But let’s say the answer is yes – then give more.  Instead of 10 percent, give 15 and just see what happens.

And finally (and this is the tricky part), you have to tithe and give with a cheerful heart.  You can’t do it because you’re supposed to or just to get blessed in return.  You have to tithe and give out of the overwhelming gratitude for what God has already blessed you with.

I know some of you may be skeptical, but I guarantee this book will change the way you look at money and impact your life (and your wallet) for the better.

It’s not just a change of habit, it’s a change of heart.